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[人生感悟]会计职场里需要一点小“伪善” [复制链接]

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  在会计职场里,一些人很容易为小事情生气。然而,小事情往往是最难分出对错的,所以就把大量的精力纠结于此,弄得天怒人怨,最后还不了了之。实际上,小事情并不会改变你的职场命运,就算争赢了也不会让你得到什么好处。相反,过于纠缠细节,会令你得罪许多人,也会让同事对你的好感降低。 IZ|c <#r6  
  一、伪善的人不是异类 ?TRW"%  
  很多人都会觉得,身边同事都太假了,像是戴着面具做人。而实际上,这种伪善的人在职场中是主流,所以一个实话实说的人反而成了异类。别把职场中伪善的人当成怪胎,他们每说一句谎话,都是有好处的,而你做不到他们那么虚伪,是一种缺憾。所以在职场中,你或者学会说谎话,或者学会沉默。 Lq3(Z%  
  二、切勿轻信他人  \8 g.  
  职场是一个利益交换的场所,品德好的人往往树敌众多,而坏人却顺风顺水。你可以不学坏人那样去害人,但至少要有保护自己的能力。别人要来害你,最简单的方式是利用你的善良,其次是因为你轻信于人。而在职场中,信任往往应该有尺度。站在自己的立场上,守住应该有的利益,相信应该相信的话,这才能活得更好。 a_xQ~:H  
  三、掌握你命运的人是老板 y}Ck zD  
  职场是一个用权力来划分等级的地方,拥有最高权力的老板,完全掌握你的命运。而你的直属上司则部分掌握你的命运。其余的同事们,他们只是掌握你的情绪而已。所以,对一个女人而言,事情就变得很简单。只要谁掌握老板就等于掌握了别人的命运。而如果你老是被情绪控制,则等于把自己的命运交到同事手里。要不被老板控制是很难的,但至少,你要学会不受同事的影响。 EmYO5Whi  
  四、做得多不如说得多 ,7QBJ_-;QJ  
  在职场里,有些人明明做了很多,却不懂表现,以至于没人知道,甚至功劳被人抢走,这种人就算累得半死,也是不会有半分功劳的,因为上司压根看不见她。而另一些人,事情还没做,就先说得天下皆知。于是不管她们做不做得成,有没有做,都成了领导眼里的红人。职场的现实就是这样,做得多不如说得多,做得好不如说得好。 ZyZl\\8U  
  五、所有想混日子的人,都会被工作忙到累死 %!>k#F^S  
  混日子并不是一种生活,而是一种待遇。在职场里,老板给你钱换取你的劳力,获得薪水的同时,你就必须要干活。而只有那些拥有权力的人,才可以白拿工资瞎混日子。而在底层的小人物,日子是靠熬而不是混,手中没有权力,当然没资格混吃等死。因此,要看清楚自己的职位与工作,做好本分工作,其它的事情则可以淡然处之。 K@y-)I2]  
  六、对“胡搅蛮缠”的人一定要斗到底 'et(:}i  
  看过《杜拉拉升职记》的人大概都会对于杜拉拉在处理公司装修时与王伟争论的一幕留下印象,对于销售部门的“胡搅蛮缠”,杜拉拉还是忍不住发了脾气,大声训斥比自己职位大很多的王伟,结果还是杜拉拉赢了。职场里输家往往不是没有手段和智谋,而是太容易心软了。真正的赢家,是没有心软的资格的。许多人在职场里都是有竞争对手的,而女孩子往往会是失败的那一个。绝不是因为她们没有手腕和智谋,而是因为女孩太容易心软。职场里,最困扰女性的,往往是受感情的控制。当对手畏缩了,可怜了,就放弃一举拿下的机会,反而患得患失,最后让人逆转局面。真正的胜利者,并没有太多的技巧,只不过把该做的事情做到底而已。 %+ /f'6kR  
  七、不是每个机会都值得尝试的 u2f `|+1^y  
  在职场里最大的问题并非是要不要往上爬,而是如何抵御诱惑,尤其对于女性来说。许多人不是没有机会,而是机会太多,不晓得如何选择。职场里的机会,至少有一半是陷阱,它们不是在帮你,而是拖住你前进的步伐。所以,当机会来临的时候,一定要弄清楚,这是在推你,还是在拉你。 }FuV Y><l  
  八、别做职场里最聪明的人 (}VuiNY<3  
  你要记住,别怕做职场里最笨的那一个,但千万别做最聪明的人。千万不要以为不做职场中最聪明的人就是一种没有自信的表现。其实有些人没有自信,就怕自己是人们眼里最笨的那个,才抢着机会展示自己的小聪明。事实上,职场里混得最差的,通常不是最笨的,而是那些自以为很聪明的。每个人对自己智商的评估,应该打一个对折后再打一个对折,这才接近于真相。而笨人虽不能爬上权力的高峰,却可以在职场里找到安身立命的地方。可自作聪明的人,却往往会被人排挤,会成为先失败的出头鸟。所以,聪明是一种很危险的状态,笨反而更安全。
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